pro tip for disabled people (especially autistic people) that i just realized after literal years of chronic illness…
when a health professional asks how you’re doing, it’s not small talk. they want to know how your health has been. do not reply “good.” if you seem them for chronic pain, talk about your pain. if you see them for mental health, tell them how you’ve been feeling. etc. etc. again… don’t reply “good.” jump right into it and be honest about your health.
as a kid I had this little plastic toy rifle I found on the side of a road. for definitely good reason, my mom didn’t like the idea of me having projectiles for it, so I just had a pretty harmless toy gun that made a snapping click sound when you pulled the trigger
but one day, I broke the flimsy plastic barrel and there was a metal rod inside that moved with the spring. and the spring was pretty strong.
which meant that what I now had was effectively a pilebunker/livestock bolt gun, and I proceeded to use it to punch little holes in wooden structures until my parents finally figured out where they were coming from and how blind they’d been to the danger
I remember looking at it and getting dizzy with power thinking “if it can destroy wood… can it destroy a person…?” and then discarding that train of thought to go punch holes in a fence or something. but it could’ve been so much worse
obsessed with my partners cishet friend because he is literally only friends with transmascs. don’t call yourself a cis ally unless 90% of your circle is trans
fellas you are never going to believe what happened to her
Y’know if you have a stupid amount of money to blow on absolute bullshit the mico Louis Vuitton is actually pretty sweet XD Like if I’m spending more than $20 on a mini bag, I’m spending it on the tiniest bag possible.
